2015 Is Coming – It’s Time To STOP Dreaming

The entire year went by and you didn’t accomplish what you set out to accomplish. Why?

There’s no doubt I’ve had years where I didn’t accomplish what I intended. Several years ago I was living in South Florida and I remember going to the beach at the beginning of January for a “personal goal setting” meeting ( the beach is beautiful that time of year).

I made a list of all the things I wanted to see happen. It was a long list; I mean I was dreaming BIG TIME! Have you ever had a session like that? I can still see myself sitting in my chair…. early in the morning… seagulls are flying… there’s a nice breeze as the sun came up – it was a great experience.

Fast forward to November of that same year and I went to that same spot to “reflect” on the year. I opened up my list of things I inteended to accomplish and I was amazed! I hadn’t accomplished hardly any of them! I was stunned! Shocked! What it the world went wrong?

Have you ever been in that situation? What were your emotions? What were you thinking? I know what I was thinking. I was really frustrated but I realized ultimately what happened, and it most likely happens to you.

Those people who you see accomplish their goals and dreams aren’t smarter than you. They simply have learn some incredible productivity tips that help them get to where they want to go.

Here are 5 ways to make sure that your dreams for 2015 are met:

Understand how to STOP dreaming and start doing.

If you’re not careful, you can dream, dream, and dream again! At some some you have to pull your dreams  into reality and begin taking action.

Learn To Conquer Fear. 

Yeah I know….. cliche. It’s true though. When you step out in faith to take action; it’s scary. Sometimes real scary! You have to know that going in – and learn to deal with fear; It’s real and any successful person has to deal with it (a lot).

Learn The Art Of The Pivot.

When you begin to take action; it doesn’t always pan out. You’ll make some mistakes and realize that some of your dreams aren’t going to work like you thought. It’s ok, and normal! There will be plenty of times where you have to “pivot”; meaning you have to move your dream into another direction to see it happen.

Get Advice From Someone You Trust.

It is sound biblical wisdom to entrust in someone for wisdom’s sake. Whether it’s your best friend, spouse or a paid consultant or business coach – you need wisdom and guidance. Everyone does, and I mean everyone.

Get The Tools You Need.

 There are sooooo many tools to help you to your end result. I personally use Nozbe for everyday tasks, GoalsOnTrack for large projects, and Evernote to keep the notes and ideas from all of the compartments of my life together in one place. Systems and tools are important, and there are a host of different tools that I promise one is right for you.

It’s your turn. How do you see your dreams and goals for 2015? What are you going to be willing to do to get them? Start doing. Today. Every little action step moves you one step closer.

Are You Tired Of Dreaming? Ready For Action?

Do you have dreams about what you want to do? Places you want to go? Maybe you want to quite your day job and start your dream job. There’s a big difference about dreaming about your ideas and your goals for the future, and then dreaming about your ideas and goals… and you keep dreaming… and you keep dreaming… and you keep dreaming but you don’t take action. Have you ever felt that way? Chances are you have. It’s very common because a lot of us have feel that way. But few people really actually put their dreams into action.

NowI recently spent some time with a very successful local business owner. He’s grown his business from nothing to becoming a multi-million-dollar business.  Successful enough that he’s now been around for more than 15 years, and has stabilized and actually grew during the downturn of the economy (which is impressive). I asked him about his story – you know how he started. I’m always fascinated to hear the story of how people start get their dreams into action.

He told me that he originally worked for a similar company for about 10 months, however it was a place that had very poor ethics and morals. He didn’t  see himself there  much longer and decided to leave. During the last few months of his employment, he began to dream that he too could have a business just like the one whe was working for…and actually become more successful. He was tired of watching a business make money in ways he believed was unethical. So, he decided to journey out on his own stepping out on faith, through hard work, and a significant amount of dedication to see his dreams come true. There’s a reality to our dreams – they have a cost. It could be time, money, sacrifice or most likely all the above. I’m not suggesting that you do something ridiculous and just quit your day job without a plan or saving up enough to see your dreams come true. I’m talking about taking action!

Some see my friends business as very successful because they are. Some see him today and are mesmerized by his success. However, most don’t know that he started his business from the kitchen table with only $68. That’s right $68! When they first started the business they did not lament on all of the dos and all of the do nots, or all of the potential frustrations and all of the potential pitfalls…… he simply did one thing that most people don’t. He took action! He didn’t wait till it was all perfect. He started his action plan that put him into a position to take a step to see his dream come true.

So my question to you… Are you dreaming about your ideas and your future, are you just dreaming? Dreams are just dreams without you taking massive action. Stop just “dreaming” and starting “doing” by taking action today.

Make Life Simple With One Word

SimpleSome would believe that we’ve become incredibly complicated. Would you agree? Even the “tech tools” that we have available to us have created another job for us……. Yes, they’re helpful – don’t get me wrong. But how many times have you sat on the phone with a tech for one of your computers? Point proven.

It goes even deeper than that….. We’ve allowed ourselves to think “more” is better….. to think “bigger” is better…. to think I have to be involved with “everything”….. to believe that to get somewhere – I have to have certain people “like” me…… and on and on.

We can deliberate for hours on exactly how to make our lives more simple, but there is one – sure fire way to make it happen. Put the word “NO” into action. Ta-da! Ok, I know what you’re thinking…… “But I can’t stop doing the things I’m involved in”….. yes you can. “But if I don’t do ‘that’, I’ll miss out”…….no you won’t.

We’ve allowed ourselves to believe a TON of false information. This thought of “Living life simple” came recently for me when we began to put up Christmas decorations. We were finding it hard to complete everything, and get all the decorations up. Don’t get me wrong, I love Christmas. I want to provide the best Christmas experience possible for my kids. But there comes a point that you have to take a look at the season of life you’re in and make a decision on the actions that you’re taking and ask – “Is this adding complication, or helping provide the type of life I want to achieve” . If our decisions and actions are making life hard – then I would like to introduce you to “Mr. No”. 

There are commitments in our life that we can’t avoid – work ( all though that can be a choice too), family, chores, etc. But there’s a lot of things we do that we can say NO to, that will significantly improve our desire to live life more “simple”.

The next time you make a decision – just ask yourself, “Is this helping me achieve simplicity”? The answer will be apparent. The beauty of saying “no” will automatically make all the things you say YES to make since to your life. If you’re looking for simple harmony, start by saying NO.

Time Is Money For Small Businesses – How Are You Spending Your Time?

I’m always researching ways to be more productive and how to better spend my time on tasks and projects. I think with our lifestyle changes over the last 15 years or so, combined with advancements in technology, we simply can’t do things the way we’ve always done them. Those who want to be successful at being productive, should be on the lookout for different ways to accomplish the “mountain” of tasks we have in our lives.

I was recently introduced to a new way of productive thinking called the 50/10 rule. In a nutshell, the 50/10 rule says that you work on a task or project for fifty straight minutes, and then you take a ten minute mental break. I was intrigued by this because I’ve always been a believer in “block” planning which means you focus your thoughts and energy to a specific tasks or project for a period of time.

Learning how to manage your day by using focus and a forced mental break is a great way to get MORE accomplished and feel great about it. Here’s why; When you focus your efforts and energy into one area, you prevent having to “start & stop” your brain from thinking about more things at one time – which it’s not designed to do. In addition, when you take a mental break, you give your mind the opportunity to relax which allows better performance throughout the day. The 50/10 rule appeals to me because it forces you to take a mental break. You may not want admit it, but you need a mental break. Our society is steeped in depression and anxiety mainly because of the mental pressure we’re constantly under.

If you’re tired of going home worn out and exhausted, then I would encourage you to try the 50/10 rule. You can read an in depth article here for additional details about this type of productivity and how it can benefit you.